Hello, and welcome back to another episode of all the things podcast. I’m your host, Regina Lawrence. And if you are just joining me today, I’m in the midst of a 30-day content challenge. That means every day for the next 30 days, you and me get to connect on the podcast for a short little burst of a podcast episode. I almost forgot to do an episode this morning. I usually wake up, make my coffee, and then get back in bed and record an episode and I actually just sat down at my desk to get some work done. And realized shit, I didn’t do an episode. 

So this morning, I’m going to keep it super quick. But I want to chat about something that has been on my mind a lot lately. And I hope I can make sense of it for all of you. But I’m just going to share and see where it goes. So something that I have really thought a lot about lately is calling abundance into my life, calling in all of the yummy abundances that the universe has to offer me. And in doing that I’ve really been trying to address areas of my life where I might be blocking myself. So let me talk to you about what I think about manifestation and abundance because my way of thinking about it might be different than how you were taught or what other people might think about it. So I want to share with you a little bit about my thought process.

I think that abundance and money and everything around us that’s charged with energy is able to flow to us at every single moment, every single moment. But we have to put ourselves in positions to actually receive said abundance. So I like to phrase it by saying we have to create avenues through which the abundance can actually flow to us. So you know, I heard a story there’s this famous manifestation coach She was saying that she used to sit in her room, and like, basically hope and wish and set her intention on what she wanted. But it wasn’t until she went into action, that the money and abundance really started to flow. So when people are building a business, and they’re seeking clients, and they’re seeking money, and they’re seeking to grow, and do what they’re here on the planet, do, we have to go into action, and then let the abundance flow, or say you’re a coach, and you want more clients to come into your program. Well, you need to actually have a program that clients can flow into that they know they can work with you through, right? And so anyway, I’ve been thinking that’s kind of like a high level of what I think about abundance and manifestation, it requires us to not just think and imagine and visualize, but it also requires us to like step in motion in our lives and step forward in our lives, we can’t just sit and not do anything and expect everything to work out magically for us. So that’s just like high level. So I’ve started to think about where in my life I could have some blocks around abundance. And I started to think about the connection between my romantic life and the money that I’m calling in. And so I dated somebody for the bulk of last year, we had a somewhat casual relationship for nine months or so. And in January, I realized like, it wasn’t just in January, but in January, it really hit me that I was in a relationship that was giving me so much less than I desired and I deserved. And it actually got to the point progressively where at the end, I was being treated and spoken to in a way that is unacceptable to speak to anybody to treat anyone. And it dawned on me meditation one day that, you know, I am accepting less than I desire and deserve in this relationship. And that accepting less is triggering the universe and saying, Hey, this is less than I desire and deserve. So please give me less in all areas of my life, including my finances, including my clients, including my business. So that was a catalyst to completely end that relationship. And something really powerful happened. I saw so much more money, flood into my life and business. And it really brought full circle, the correlation between what we accept in one area of our life has an impact on what we get in other areas of our life, energetically, what we take and tolerate has a footprint in other areas of our life. So if we are constantly dating men who treat us like shit, and we are in that energy, we are saying to the universe, this is fine. I am happy to accept men who will treat me like shit. If we are constantly accepting business deals and agreements and clients who are not what our heart desires, we are saying to the universe, yes, give me what I don’t want. Because we’re basically saying this thing that I’m accepting, this is actually what I want. So give me more of this, right? 

So this is an invitation to myself and an invitation to you to take a moment and to evaluate. Evaluate what you’re accepting. Evaluate what you’re calling in, evaluate what you’re desiring in your life. And see if what is coming in and what you’re accepting matches what you truly desire. If what you truly desire is not what you are accepting right now. Then there has to be a shift. If you are working with clients that fucking drive you insane, that is not what you want, then stop working with them, and actively call in and seek the new people, but create the avenue. Where do the people that I truly desire hang out and how can I be in that energy? Okay? If you keep dating shitty men that treat you like a fucking shit, and you want someone to treat you like a queen and to honor you and to be your partner in life, stop dating shitty men. Because not only are you energetically saying to the universe, yes, yes, yes, give me more of this. But you’re also conditioning yourself as a human being, to tolerate things you don’t need to tolerate. We already tolerate and deal with so much, because of our past traumas and our childhood, and what we grew up with and what we saw on TV, we need to stop that cycle. So I hope this was helpful. This has been on my heart and on my mind so much lately. 

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Regina Lawrence Esq. is a former trial attorney and law school professor turned soulful business & life strategist. She has found that so many entrepreneurs have these brilliant ideas and dreams but don’t know how to take the dream and create a system or structure to make that dream & idea profitable.  That is where Regina comes in.  With discipline, consistency, systems & structure, we can’t help but create profit & fulfillment from our soul-driven business ideas.

Regina’s approach to coaching marries her background in legal analysis, spirituality, mindset coaching, holistic nutrition, and neuroscience to create an experience that will assist you in getting into alignment, get clear on what you are here to do and what steps and systems to implement to make that dream a profitable reality.

You can find Regina on Instagram @reginaalawrence.